Saturday, December 6, 2008

Yet, Another interesting article

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/87063/fascinating-facts-about-successful-single-men

Finally, someone honest enough to admit what women really want in their men.

16 comments:

Anonymous said...

Oh my god! I just logged onto yahoo and saw that DATING RICH GUYS and the man in the pic looked desi! Could it be you? And I copied to paste it on your blog and I see you already got it.

Are we connected or what???

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/87063/fascinating-facts-about-successful-single-men

Amazing.

I've never dated a rich man though.

THE_HMF said...

jesus f'n christ is anyone else out there.

Anonymous said...

Here's something even more interesting. Is brown the new black? If so, HMF, your ship as finally set sail!

http://colorblindcupid.wordpress.com/2008/04/28/do-white-girls-just-dig-indian-guys/

PS: are we gonna meet for chai or what?

THE_HMF said...

anyone? Shanti?

THE_HMF said...

Thats the most f*cked up blog I've ever read.

Anonymous said...

What did you think was effed up about it? That white women are attracted to desi men or what?

Anonymous said...

From the same site - nice Desi guys finish FIRST (not last) with the ladeez. HMF, your theories are based on yesteryear I guess.

Abbie has this to say;

I am also a white girl who has dated several Indian guys (and 1 Pakistani) and now am marrying one! (An Indian guy from TamilNadu). And lorriel, I’ll say that I agree with you…I’m still trying to figure out why myself!

I have dated “American” white guys as well, and I think a lot of has to do with more than just looks. I think a lot of white women (and black women), American women in general, are expanding their horizons when it comes to dating for several reasons. First of all, chivalry and “being a gentleman” are nearly dead in our country when it comes to white and black guys or typical “American” guys. Now I know this sounds stereotypical or like I am making a generalization, but in many cases, I’ve found this to be true. Our culture no longer demands that men treat women with the same old-fashioned respect and courtesy that it used to. Even our music has become a reflection of the disrespectful attitude many men have towards women and dating. Sadly, it is hard to find a “good guy” out there who just knows how to treat a woman with respect. Not that all the good American guys are gone, but what I’m trying to say is that they are dwindling. I think many American women are reaching out for a man who will treat them right, whether that means dating someone black, white, Hispanic, Indian, Asian, or whatever. Our society is also become more and more open in to diversity and more and more immigrants are moving here, so a combination of all these things has American women grabbing up all the foreigners.

Now, I am quite biased of course when it comes to Indian men. But I do agree that many white women may gravitate towards Indian men more so than other foreigners. I feel like Indian men are some of the hottest foreigners…lol…but again, I am biased. Really, though, they do have a look about them that is attractive, with the pretty skin tone, pretty complexion, pretty features, etc. So I can see why white women would be drawn to this. I always was! But I think another positive point in the Indian men’s favor goes back to the whole “being treated well” thing. Not only are the Indian guys typically good looking, they also have a tendency to be the “nice guys” in most cases. Most of the Indian guys I’ve dated or known were all really friendly, charming, kind, respectful, and easy to talk to. Indian culture I think pretty much teaches their kids to be respectful of others and in general to be nice and have a good attitude. So Indian guys just tend to come across as good guys.

Put all this together, and I think it just makes sense why all these American women are attracted to Indian guys

Anonymous said...

And now it's official EVEN IN INDIA (of all places!) the nice guy gets the girl(s). Wow. Reading this piece gives me hope...

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Review/Defanging_the_Indian_MCP/articleshow/3641607.cms#write

Anonymous said...

Sorry, the complete link is;

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Review/Defanging_the_Indian_MCP/articleshow/3641607.cms#write

Looks like I'll be contacting NSS to find me a husband. Of course, I still want to meet you as well.
How are your roti rolling skills?

THE_HMF said...

you are really screwed up. and probably not even that hot.

Anonymous said...

Well, better not to be hot because women that get by mostly on their looks, and KNOW that they get by mostly on their looks are usually the most insecure people in the world.

Especially since they know no matter what, that gift is the one that gets steadily taken away. As Johnny Cash says,

Sooner or later, God'll cut you down.

THE_HMF said...

ok. you said it. not me. seriously you need some real help. thanks for making me look normal.

Anonymous said...

Ha. Ha. Didn't you get the above?

YOU WROTE IT!

So in other words, you're saying YOU need help.

Come to mama, baby. She waitin'.

THE_HMF said...

yes you freaky idiot. I know I wrote it. I'm saying you need help because all you did was parrot it.

Anonymous said...

Then this;

ok. you said it. not me. seriously you need some real help. thanks for making me look normal.

... makes no sense.

You come across as someone who smokes too much sensimilia.

Therefore you just lost your only commenter to your blog. I can't stand sensiheads. There's no getting through to y'all...

Your loss....

And, I'm STILL posting at SM by the way ;)

Catch me if you can...

Anonymous said...

Then this;

ok. you said it. not me. seriously you need some real help. thanks for making me look normal.

... makes no sense.

You come across as someone who smokes too much sensimilia.

Therefore you just lost your only commenter to your blog. I can't stand sensiheads. There's no getting through to y'all...

Your loss....

And, I'm STILL posting at SM by the way ;)

Catch me if you can...